I am going to my cousin’s 21st birthday this weekend and I must admit I am a little afraid.
If it’s anything like the year of 21st’s that I went to when I was 21 it will involve buying a hip flask or a vase as a present depending on your gender, dressing up in impractical fancy dress, drinking far too much and mixing drinks, dancing crazily, throwing up, drinking some more and waking up in either a car or a barn.
I feel like I am far too old to be contemplating such activities and am quite glad it’s actually not expected of me at my age. It has a time and place, but I prefer to enjoy my weekend DAYS now rather than spending them hung-over until it’s time to start drinking again.
So, it got me thinking about what makes me feel old?
When I delayed university for two years and then had to enter as a mature age student- that label made me feel old.
When I asked one of my younger friends if they liked “Things that make you go Hmmm” and they didn’t know who C & C Music Factory were- that made me feel old.
When I realised I got my belly button piercing BEFORE it was cool- this made me feel old, but also very cool so that was ok.
When I turned 25, I had a quarter-life crisis. So by the time I turned 30, I was over feeling old due to the age that I was.
When I think of all the technology advances I have seen in my lifetime- that is the best indicator of the path of time. In the past, the move from records to tapes seemed huge. But now, technology moves at such a fast rate I have seen the move from tapes to CD’s to MP3 players to iTunes.
When I went on my first trip to Europe by myself I had to use pay phones to keep in touch with my parents. Now there are mobile phones, email, Facebook and Skype.
Finally, when I got a mortgage, got married and had a child- this really made me feel old! So maybe feeling old is directly proportionate to the amount of responsibilities you have in your life?
But at the end of the day, age is just a number, not how we feel. And we are all still 21 on the inside right?